I am happy today. We are heading for a short family break at a resort just a few minutes away from home. We just want to bring Sona to have fun in the pool and to spend time at the beach. As for me, I just need some time away from home. Since we have a new addition, Sona changed in her behaviour. She behaves like a baby all over again. She wants more attention, nurse more than four times a day and wants to get me involves in everything she does. At first I was worried, but after some readings and information from friends, I found out that the behaviour is normal. She feels insecure seeing her mum spend more time with the new baby than her.She need some distraction. Therefore we have been thinking of sending her to school. She needs to fill up her time doing something and going to school may gives her more activities to do not forgetting she will have new friends as well. The journey of finding the right place to send her should begins soon. I have been to a boarding school since I was twelve and sending a child to her first school marks an important journey in her life. We have been talking to her about the idea so that she will not feel that we are sending her away because we dont love her. Kids can be very sensitive with certain issue. She even wants me to follow her to school. I just hope we'll find a good school for her and she will enjoy it. I may start to look at few places nearby and doing some research of those places. Mummies out there, and advice to share?
2 comments:
Am sure Sona will enjoy playschool...in the beginning memang susa sikit cos she will cry but after she got used to the idea and enjoy having more friends to play with...dia yg sendiri masuk the school tu nanti and the teacher hv to remind her to say goodbye to u hehehe...Ethan was like dat la jua..at first nangis2 tu...kesian dingar his cries..tp lama2 now sukaan uda p school...
ya...tht was the reason why we sent him to school b4 bb Eli arrives...takut dia rasa neglected ..and though he mimang pandai jeles esp seeing his daddy angkat Eli tp it is manageable..not so bad...i guess him being in school and didnt really see how much time i spent wt bb Eli during confinement makes him less jealous of the lil baby bro...hope sona gets better in terms of jealousy...
i hope so joyce.i just wish i work in kk area so that ican find her playschool in kk. and i hope she will recover soon from the jealousy..macam masih lagi nie..super manja, minta dukung saja
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